Monday, May 18, 2009
MfM - Balance
Finding the balance is tough. It's been over a year and I still haven't quite got it: the balance between mom and woman, between responsibilities and fun. My kids are my life, there is no doubt about that. But I couldn't live without embracing my womanhood, either, letting my sexuality and sensuality shine. Being a mom is a huge part of my life, but it does not define me. I was my own person before I had kids, I continue to be my own person now. I want to be riding a cock just as much as I want to be riding a merry-go-round. I love tasting a new pussy just as much as I love tasting a new flavor of ice cream. I'm as passionate about trying new positions as I am seeing my kids learn new things. Without my after-hours, carefree, "come and take me" sex-kitten side, I could not be a good mom to my boys. So both sides of my dual personality need to be represented, need to have their own time in my life. It's just a matter of finding the right balance. I am Mom, but I am also Woman. Hear me moan. ;)
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I think I can relate. I've been struggling to find a balance between parts of who I am as well.
ReplyDeleteI nearly wrote mine along these lines, in fact.
Oh, I love this - it's so beautifully honest. I wouldn't have thought about the balance between being a woman and a mother, but it's one of the hardest balances to maintain...
ReplyDeleteI so, so, so get this. Indeed the hard part is finding the balance. Thank you for writing this it made me smile x
ReplyDelete"I am woman, hear me moan" <-- excellent line :-)
ReplyDeleteI think it's great that you aknowledge that it is necessary to know and respond to your needs as an individual, while working toward meeting the needs of your family. I see way to many people who sacrifice themselves for others and it's not a healthy option. Balance is a worthy thing to strive for, indeed.
I hope to someday be a mother like you. :)
ReplyDeleteI strive towards living a balance life. Being a libra, I find it very imprortant. But it's not always easy to achieve. :P